“Mum and Dad Need Care… What Do I Do?”
Your First Steps Towards Finding the Right Support
Realising your parent needs extra help can be an emotional, confusing and overwhelming moment. It’s a question many of our families face:
“Mum and Dad need care… what do I do?”
“The world of ‘adult care’ was brand new to me… Within a couple of days a full care plan was in place helping my Mother. Amazing work… The engaging personal manner, real respect shown & dignified approach the Carers demonstrate is first class.”
You’re Not Alone — And You Don’t Have to Do It Alone
It’s incredibly hard to accept that a loved one needs more support. Whether it’s frailty, memory loss, or simply not managing tasks safely anymore, it can be a shock to realise they can’t do what they used to.
Many families tell us they feel guilt, fear or worry at this stage — but asking for help is not giving up. It’s ensuring your loved one is supported, safe and cared for with dignity, while allowing you to be their family again — not their carer.
Starting the Conversation
Approaching the subject of care with your mum or dad can feel daunting. Start gently. Try:
- “I’ve noticed you seem a bit tired lately, how are you coping?”
- “Would it be helpful if someone popped in to give you a hand now and then?”
- “I want to make sure you’re safe and happy at home — can we look at some options together?”
Listening matters. Make the conversation two-way, and reassure them that care can be flexible and friendly — not intrusive or clinical.
What to Expect with Lakeland Care
We’ve been delivering homecare in Barrow, Ulverston and Millom for over 20 years, and we understand how deeply personal this step is.
Here’s what happens when you reach out to us:
- ✅ We listen. We’ll speak with you and your loved one to understand exactly what’s needed.
- ✅ We act fast. A bespoke care plan can be in place within days.
- ✅ We introduce friendly, local carers who fit your family’s personality and needs.
- ✅ We check in regularly and adapt support as things change.
Our carers are often described as “proper lovely folk” — patient, practical, respectful, and always ready with a smile. They don’t just do tasks — they build trust and companionship.
You Don’t Have to Know All the Answers
Choosing care doesn’t mean losing independence — it often brings it back. Whether it’s help with washing, meal prep, medication or simply a daily chat, we’re here to make life easier and safer.
So if you’re at the stage of asking, “What do I do?” — talk to us. We’ll guide you every step of the way.
Why Choose Lakeland Care?
- 20 years of experience supporting people across Barrow, Ulverston, Millom and the wider Furness area.
- Proudly employee-owned – our carers have a real stake in the company and care deeply about the work they do.
- Deep local knowledge – we know the area, the people, and the community values that matter.
- Rated 10/10 on Homecare.co.uk – Read our glowing reviews here.
- Rated ‘Good’ by the CQC – We meet high standards for safety, effectiveness, responsiveness, and leadership.
📞 Call our team today for friendly, no-pressure advice.
💙 Lakeland Care — 20 years of caring for our community.
